Telling his date of coming it shows he is sincere ?

Hi! Everyone . I am quite member of this forum already.I am here to ask some tips on how to test the sincerity of man.I met a guy at FFF last March 26 and he told me that he wants to meet me.He is not my boyfriend and we are only friends.He give me already the date when he arrive.This week he will let me know his flight too.

My question is .This man is sincere?i am curious because i ve been the victim of those promises of man before.

So thank you to those share their ideas and i will let you know if this man will arrive.

pls.pray for me.


God bless

How can he know the date of his arrival if he hasn't booked a ticket yet?

Yes thats make me puzzled.Thanks .....for replying

Ask him straight up is he coming to meet just you or is he planning on meeting other girls. When I met my now fiance the first time in May 2005 I only came to see her. I did not come to see any other girls.

If he tells the truth that he is going to meet other girls. Then you have the choice if you want to meet him or not. Depends on if you like that idea or not.

hi! ask him straight .He told me he is not meeting anyone only me.He have a limited time 5 days only nad he come back on fourth quarter.

Thanks .....you are blessed!

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If he comes only to meet you and only plans on staying for 5 days then he is sincere in wanting to meet you.

Hi Stephanie, you will only know if he's really sincere if he's already there with you!!

Here is a tip from me. If he ever buys a ticket, then ask him to scan the ticket and email it to you. If you are still in doubt, then go ahead and call the airline for confirmation. Some airlines do not give out information though, but you can always say you are the GF or pretend to be his secretary.

Knowing the date of arrival without purchase of ticket yet is NOT a red flag. He can easily see if there are flights available, and probably wants to make sure of your willingness to meet him befor he plunks down maybe $2,000.

Coming for only five days is a GOOD thing maybe. It means he probably has a job, and only has one-week of vacation available. Some of us would like to spend more time on our trips to the RP, but we simply are not able to take extended amounts of time away from our work. Remember, no work = no fiance-visa if the relationship gets that far.

Good luck, I hope it works out.

Originally Posted by BJZags

probably wants to make sure of your willingness to meet him befor he plunks down maybe $2,000.
...( )... he probably has a job,

If he can afford that without a job maybe he doesn't need a job...

Originally Posted by BJZags

and only has one-week of vacation available. Some of us would like to spend more time on our trips to the RP, but we simply are not able to take extended amounts of time away from our work. Remember, no work = no fiance-visa...

I just got back from a 2 month visit to Cebu to get married. I left home on the 9th of March. We got married on the 8th of April and I spent another month there with my bride returning on the 8th of May. This doesn't mean to say I have no job just that I'm self employed and believe more in enjoying life than worrying over the loss of a few weeks income. Not everybody fits the corporate bill.

The no work = no fiancee visa thing does not apply to all nationals, it does to mainly the US, UK, Aus. In my case I don't have to prove I have a job, or an income or anything else, just that I exist, i have a citizenship, a man, and now a married one. Besides, we don't have 'fiancee visas' in Europe so if 'he's' European (and non-British - a special case) he'd have to marry you there and then take you 'home' on a Shengen visa, if it gets that far.

Best of luck anyway, he sounds interested and sincere whoever he is, keep an open mind and trust your instinct.