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Long Distance Romances and Courtship Here you can ask questions about long distance relationships, or share your experiences with others. Topics include, but are not limited to, how to find a sincere person to start a relationship, "red flags," how often to write or call, and more. Tell others about your victories AND you failures and the lessons you've learned. Etc.

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Old April-21st-2006, 07:29 AM   #1 (permalink)
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I wanna know what love is...?

Hello there my name is honey,living here in the philippines since i was born.. I have been hurt, that a guy promise me..that he will never leave me for better or for sickness...but he never did, i have a myasthenia gravis...and its really hard that he leave me and he is enjoying his self to other girl because im sick... do i have to hate him? please help me.....you guys tell me what to do..
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Old April-21st-2006, 07:53 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Honey.
Im sorry to hear for what your dealing right now.You know for me,he still loves you and i know its not easy for him to let you go just like that.He was confused about your situation and i know that he was also hurt for what really happened on both of u.You know weve been studied about myasthenia before and it was really not easy and The response to any form of treatment is difficult to assess because the severity of symptoms fluctuates. Spontaneous improvement, even remissions, occur without specific therapy, especially during the early stages of the disease.
This time you must have to understand the whole situation,forgive him and dont let your heart turn into hatred..it will not help you.

I will pray for you honey that you will be okay and treated.Dont worry he's not the only man in this world.Your still lucky and blessed,remember that.
You can still find someone that is more deserving for you and will take care of you and accept for whatever you are.

Goodluck and Godbless
tim
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Old April-21st-2006, 03:43 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Hi
Many years ago I was down and out after a motorcycle accident.
I thought I might lose my leg or at least be poor for the rest of my life because I wasn't sure if I could find a good job with my disabilities.
I had left my wife previously and I didn't know if I could ever find an attractive woman again.
I lived in my van on the streets, went back to school and slowly pulled my life back together.

I went for years in poverty and without any love life but eventually I got everything I wanted.
You will too
Ignore people who lack strong character and people who disappoint
you, they will only keep you down
I learned that many people are simply fair weather friends.
It's a sad fact of life.
IMO, they are the final losers.
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Old April-21st-2006, 05:42 PM   #4 (permalink)
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It hurts because the one person whom you didn't expect to desert you in your dire need just did. Is love to blame? No. Its not true love in the first place. You cannot sustain a one sided love, it has to go both ways.

I know the feeling, been down that road before. I have also recently ended a long-term relationship, so I'm on the road again. Do I hate him? Life is too short to concern myself with petty feelings like hate and anger. Am I looking? No, I'm just too busy to look. I'll let love find me.

Look at the bright side of things, there is someone better deserving. Don't look for someone because you need them. Let love find you. In the meantime, be happy and sorround yourself with people and things you love.

Hang in there!
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Old April-21st-2006, 07:40 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Love is the absurd idea that one man is somehow better than all the others.
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Old April-21st-2006, 10:30 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Love is the imaginative exaggeration of a correct sentiment.
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Old April-21st-2006, 10:35 PM   #7 (permalink)
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just be happy that a stu*&#p like him let you go or slip on his hands. in that way you will find the person who will love you no matter what. Just pray and keep on believing. God is there. cheer up!
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Old April-21st-2006, 11:15 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally Posted by zonies
just be happy that a stu*&#p like him let you go or slip on his hands. in that way you will find the person who will love you no matter what. Just pray and keep on believing. God is there. cheer up!
greg: Correct me if I am wrong. However, I believe that serious health issues during medical exam could be cause for US Embassy to Deny Visa ?? Could be other reasons to why this Guy left her, doesn't necessary make him Stupid.
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Old April-23rd-2006, 08:45 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Hi Honey...Ive read what you've written and its really sad to know that there are people who could dare to leave you for some reasons. If he left you during the time that you needed him the most then he must have not loved you enough to keep you and keep his words he had given you.
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Old April-23rd-2006, 09:45 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Hi everybody....i am so thankful for all the advices you said, yea right life is a journey of moving on not looking back..i just pray that i will be okey soon..even in this sickness i have..I trust the Lord and i know He will never leave me... God Bless you all..thank you to all of you..who gave advices....




its meh,

honey
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