i have many travel stamps, im worried maybe send me in FPU OR AR!

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Hi to everyone! Im a new member here, first of all, i want to to let everybody know that im not really good in english, but...i try my best and i wish everyone can understand me.
After i read some good information here, im happy to join and same time to ask help to anyone that have same expercience like my expercienced... for me it is better to prepare earlier and search information ealier than getting rush.
My fiance is start filling documents for our k1 visa...and of course im start feel nervious.After reading experciences those send to fraud prevention unit and put in AR i feel nervious.
This is my story why i felt worried and nervious, and thingking maybe the CO will put me in AR too...Is anyone here has same expercience like mine??? Im 36 and soon be 37 , my fiancee is 45 and soon be 46..we met online around febuary 2009, since then we start chatting everyday and we both found special happiness, he decided to meet me last april 2009 for 10 days, august 2009 for 11 days, nov 2009 for 12 days and he promise he go with me on the day of my interview.Well income of our evidence i can say we have enough like pictures, chat records, emails, cards, western union, package, and he send gift to my family. we talk telephone everyday, so sounds good. my fiance is devorce long ago and only one devorce in his life. he is alone and he is a business man.
The problem is mine, actually not a problem but maybe CAN CAUSE OF PROBLEM....because of my travel abroad, maybe can put me in AR, i been in uk for 5 months for tourist visa, almost every year i had stamp for hongkong trip, i had 5 trips just one week or two weeks per trips or vacation, i had been in thailand for 2 trips just for one week vacation, i had australian stamp that my passport last seen i australian embassy year 2008, ( im qualified for my visa application and only visa stamp need to my passport, i decided not to return my passport) I had cancellation of k1 visa petition, my ex met his ex gf, but it was happen after he received ''notice of receipt'', while we are waiting for approval or noa2 he met his ex gf and cancelled the petition, im still lucky because, it cancelled before the notice of approve. The lawyer who assist our k1, she said i dont need to write in in the form that i had k1 visa petition before, besides she said since maybe my name is in US database all i can do is to be honest. And now i go in next step for k1 visa petition soon, do you think those travel stamp in my passport can put me in AR??
I had US tourist visa denied cause of luck of family ties.
Well if anyone wondering how i can afford to travel ? Well i have own businesses. the second put me worried because im 37 and still single never married...please i need your help to answer my question, all your comment is very welcome .

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