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| The Engagement & Marriage Process (NOT IMMIGRATION) Engagements, marriages, and weddings! Here you can discuss HOW to get married. The cost of the wedding, the size of the ring, the method of the proposal, etc. Do not discuss strictly immigration matters here - use the Immigration sections for those discussions, please. |
| View Poll Results: What type of ceremony did you (or will you) choose? | |||
| Civil ceremony, Philippines |
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36 | 19.78% |
| Civil ceremony, husband's homeland |
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27 | 14.84% |
| Religious ceremony, Philippines |
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50 | 27.47% |
| Religious ceremony, husband's homeland |
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27 | 14.84% |
| Civil ceremony in "third party" country |
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4 | 2.20% |
| Religious ceremony in "third party" country |
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0 | 0% |
| We elect to live together without marriage in Philippines |
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0 | 0% |
| We elect to live together without marriage outside Philippines |
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1 | 0.55% |
| Undocumented religious ceremony in Philippines, then official civil ceremony outside Philippines |
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7 | 3.85% |
| Undocumented religious ceremony in Philippines, then official religious ceremony outside Philippines |
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2 | 1.10% |
| Undocumented civil ceremony in Philippines, then official civil ceremony outside Philippines |
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1 | 0.55% |
| Undocumented civil ceremony in Philippines, then official religious ceremony outside Philippines |
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3 | 1.65% |
| Undocumented civil ceremony, then official religious ceremony, both in Philippines |
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0 | 0% |
| Undocumented religious ceremony, then official civil ceremony, both in Philippines |
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2 | 1.10% |
| Civil ceremony in husband's homeland, then religious ceremony in Philippines |
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22 | 12.09% |
| Voters: 182. You may not vote on this poll | |||
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#13 (permalink) |
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We chose a religious ceremony in one of the most famous and oldest churches in the Philippines, San Augustine located in Intramuros where many elite families of Manila have been wed even though neither one of us participates in organized religion. The facts of life, culturally, is that MOST Filipinos consider themselves VERY religious and since the huge majority are Roman Catholics we knew it was important for us to choose a church considered high on the "prestige" scale. Not only is the church you choose but also each and every wedding participant you choose are IMPORTANT and will follow you as a couple throughout life in the Philippines.
Being in business in the Philippines makes our choice even more important, giving his "FACE" or respect by my wife's huge extended family and their friends throughout our lives by typical, traditional Asian standards. As with many polls or multiple choice test questions I could have chosen 2 other correct answers; one being that we chose to live, travel and do business together for 2 years to the day prior to our wedding day and two, we had a civil wedding at the Mayor's house in Silang, Cavite almost8 months prior to our wedding ceremony so we could apply for USA visa so we could take a 3 month trip traveling around the USA and so Lorna could meet my parents, and see the place where I grew up. |
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Wedding? Church, Wedding on the Beach, Garden Wed? I wanted this combination in one initially but I didn't get the religious one so it was a Civil wed but I got the beach cos it took place at a resort with a great garden.
_____________ Ara Two souls with but a single thought,Two hearts that beat as one. |
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We had a simple civil ceremony in Cebu, but we are planning a more robust church wedding both there in the philippines for her family and friends....OI I dont want that bill....
As well as a second ceremony here in Alaska after my wife gets adjusted here (on our original wedding date also). So having never been married until now with Rhea, I get 3 weddings, so 3rd times the charm I guess...... Does that mean I can claim her 3 times on my taxes? |
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Dream wedding
When i was a single i wanted to have a solemn wedding,simple but wonderful.I dream of walking down the isle wearing white dress with my parents at my side and my husband is waiting me at the altar,my dream color motif is a light orange.
Last April 29,2004 my dream wedding did not happen,i already knew it.My husband told me bout it already before he did came here,and i understand. I dont have ANY regrets why my dream wedding did not happen....why should I? |
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