I just remembered something. Before I hooked up with my fiancee', there was an ad that caught my eye. Nice looking girl who had a very nice write-up on her profile. That made her very desireable to me.
However, according to what she was looking for--much like yourself--I wasn't even close to the guy she was looking for. I felt kind of insulted. That made me want to "enlighten" her about what a wonderful guy I am.
So I sent her probably the longest e-mail I ever sent to anybody on that site explaining how wonderful I was and how wrong she was because she didn't want ME. The nerve!
I didn't say anything ugly to her as I'm sure a lot of guys did. But I still never heard back from her.
But I guess my point is that some--if not most--of us guys will see it as some kind of "challenge" and still try to win the girl. I guess it's kinda like the ex-boyfriend who can't face the fact that his girl broke up with him so he tries to force his way back into the relationship.
But what do I know? I drive a truck.
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