I will go out on a limb for the fellas and say that they have probably heard that ALL Pinays are desperate to marry us fat, old, ugly guys that they find themselves in a state of disbelief that somebody would actually rebuke their advances. The nerve!
But also you have to keep in mind that these very same guys are probably getting the chat invitations from ladies that don't fit their criteria either. Oh, and let's not forget how hard it is to weed through the scammers and find a real Pinay who they could begin a relationship with. We can only "see" things from our own perspective. The guys only know that they are the only one sitting at their computer, so to them it appears that they are the only guy who is trying to get your interest.
So, just be yourself and stay true to yourself. And try to be patient in the "weeding out" process. It took a while for me, but it finally worked. I'm sure it will work out for you, too.
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